Effect of Divorce on Indian Men:

Effect of Divorce on Indian Men:



Most dangerous stage for men is, awaiting for divorce than after divorce as marriage disputes in India, irrespective the man is right or wrong (they had been abused, blackmailed, treated as Free ATM machine in front of society/police/court every where in India as in India the marriage disputes had been termed as crime for men, not for women) and waiting for divorce and the suicide stastics of crime bure report reflects the same.



Before marriage the men suicide in the rang of 56K vs women 28K

After divorce in the range of 600, both for men vs women.



After divorce the men’s life became more comfortable or worse, it depends purely on how troublesome was his marriage, what type of Divorce litigations he faced.



Perception shift:



Till 1990 or 2000, the basic perceptions were, a divorced woman is means she is a liberated women and a divorced men means he is a wife beater/abuser.



But 2000 onwards the same got changed and the society slowly accepted that A divorced men also can be victims of Domestic violence in terms of finciancial abuse, mental abuse, sexual abuse , physical abuse and the same reflects in the Suicide stastics of Men vs Women. As the divorce rate will increase more and more the same perception change will increase more, some one like it or hate it, that is the fact of irony.







Effect of Divorce on Men:



1. Finciancial effect: Huge irrespective he is right or wrong.
2. Government support : No men welfare ministry and no shelter homes.
3. Emotional effect: Depend on type of trouble he faced and type of divorce he got.
4. Loss of child access: Major problem and maximum divorced men suicide related to that.
5. Social effect: It is not exactly loss, his the social and networking circle got changed, attract towards more unclear family instead of joint family.
6. Future effect: Suicide after divorce: since 2004 it is decreasing.
7. JOB satisfactions: Get better and able to concentrate more on Professional front.



Remarriage:



1. Enjoy their work place much better than previous.
2. Spend more money for their self satisfactions of life.
3. Get less angry for small issue.
4. Became less expected in life.
5. 90% got remarried with in less than 3 years.



With the present set up , when the country like USA , who had more than 50% divorce, their child taken the marriage more workable and the rate is reducing, the country like India and Asian country is increasing and that is the cycle , as we always think the rivers other side is better than our side.